{"id":212,"date":"2008-05-20T11:05:48","date_gmt":"2008-05-20T07:05:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nedsnotebook.com\/?p=212"},"modified":"2008-05-20T11:05:48","modified_gmt":"2008-05-20T07:05:48","slug":"glue","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nedsnotebook.com\/wp\/2008\/05\/20\/glue\/","title":{"rendered":"Glue"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today we were talking about the Traditions and something I think I rarely spend much time on became apparent. It&#8217;s about the Steps&#8230;but then, it&#8217;s about the Traditions and their role in our sobriety.<\/p>\n<p>When I came into the program, I was presented with the 12 Steps as the pathway to sobriety. Over time, the Steps became the focus of my sobriety. Today, I still see them as the tools I need to stay sober. Yet, over time I was introduced to the 12 Traditions. I was told that they were the &#8220;glue&#8221; which keep this program together. But now I see them as more than just that.<\/p>\n<p>As our meeting went on, one of our old timers talked about their importance. He said that the steps are what get us sober, but it&#8217;s the traditions which keep us sober. As he talked, it opened a new way for me to look at these Traditions. My mind went back to the beginning and that first meeting, which introduced me to sobriety. I could then see the Traditions in action. The fifth Tradition was in action, when the group carried the message to me that there was a solution to my problem with alcohol. The third was presented to me, when they talked about the only requirement and accepted me with open arms, when I finally admitted I was powerless over alcohol. From the first to the 12th, the Traditions were being put into place as that meeting went on. But, I didn&#8217;t see that at the time, nor for a long time after.<\/p>\n<p>It is easy to take these Traditions for granted. I know I did. I read them and go over them from time to time, but their real importance for each and everyone of us individually is not always apparent. I can remember how my sponsor would emphasize how important it was for me to incorporate these Traditions in my daily life. I accepted his words and would try to do this, but it was not always clear how I could do that. After this man&#8217;s words today, it suddenly became clear.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I was thinking about this today and grateful that I had the opportunity to be there and hear this man&#8217;s words and to be able to express my gratitude for what these traditions have done for me and how they have provided the environment for my sobriety.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today we were talking about the Traditions and something I think I rarely spend much time on became apparent. It&#8217;s about the Steps&#8230;but then, it&#8217;s about the Traditions and their role in our sobriety. When I came into the program, I was presented with the 12 Steps as the pathway to sobriety. Over time, the &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/nedsnotebook.com\/wp\/2008\/05\/20\/glue\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Glue&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nedsnotebook.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/212"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nedsnotebook.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nedsnotebook.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nedsnotebook.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nedsnotebook.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=212"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/nedsnotebook.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/212\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nedsnotebook.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=212"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nedsnotebook.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=212"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nedsnotebook.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=212"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}